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Scott & Martha Gawley & Family donated to CANADIAN TIRE JUMPSTART CHARITIES/OEUVRE BON DEPART DE CANADIAN TIRE
Sunday, December 12, 2021
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Catherine Cadotte-Trudell donated to THE CANADIAN MENTAL HEALTH ASSOCIATION
Thursday, December 2, 2021
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Dan and Louise donated to THE CANADIAN MENTAL HEALTH ASSOCIATION
Friday, October 22, 2021
Our deepest sympathy to all the Devito family. Such a tragic loss! Reg and Luisa, we were away when you heard the news about your brother. But for now accept our virtual hugs until we see you!
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Patricia Matteis donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Friday, October 22, 2021
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Tasha Verkaik lit a candle
Thursday, October 21, 2021
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So sorry to hear of the passing of Ben. He was an awesome man and loved by many. Anyone who knew or met him was drawn to his great personality. My thoughts are with his family.
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Kathy O’Neill posted a condolence
Thursday, October 21, 2021
So very sorry to hear about Ben. My sincere sympathy to Christine, Jessica, Faith and Ben’s family. May your memories and the love that you share bring some comfort to all of you.
Kathy O’Neill
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Tracy Henry donated to THE CANADIAN MENTAL HEALTH ASSOCIATION
Thursday, October 21, 2021
Donation has been made by Tracy and Murray.
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Aunt Judy and family donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Tuesday, October 19, 2021
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shelley barnard posted a condolence
Sunday, October 17, 2021
Ben was an incredible man. Admired and loved by so many. We will miss him dearly, and he shall keep a place in our hearts til we meet again.
Sending our love and condolences to all of you.
Kevin, Shelley, Darby, Ben and Libby Barnard
"The nicest place to be is in someone's thoughts. The safest place to be is in someone's prayers. The best place to be is in God's hands." Rest easy, dear friend.
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Heather Debusschere donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Sunday, October 17, 2021
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Wayne, Delynne, Dalton and Lauren donated to CANADIAN TIRE JUMPSTART CHARITIES/OEUVRE BON DEPART DE CANADIAN TIRE
Sunday, October 17, 2021
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Leo & Annalisa Naclerio donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Sunday, October 17, 2021
Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this time of sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Diane Calabrese donated to CANADIAN TIRE JUMPSTART CHARITIES/OEUVRE BON DEPART DE CANADIAN TIRE
Saturday, October 16, 2021
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Diana Calabrese donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Saturday, October 16, 2021
deepest condolences from Antonietta Calabrese
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Janice Stubitz posted a condolence
Saturday, October 16, 2021
Christine, Jessica, Jesse, and Faith,
I am sorry to hear about the passing of Ben. My heartfelt condolences go out to all of you at this very sad time. Please give Faith a big hug from Mrs. S. You’ve all been in my thoughts and prayers.
Janice and Steve Stubitz
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Tammy (Myers) Mcfadden lit a candle
Saturday, October 16, 2021
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Sending sincere condolences to You & Your Family at this difficult time Christine.
I had the privilege of sharing my high school experience with Ben. Always a Great Guy with an amazing Heart. He will truly be missed.
Kindest regards,
Tammy (Myers) Mcfadden
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Bill Latimer donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Saturday, October 16, 2021
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Deborah Raimo lit a candle
Saturday, October 16, 2021
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Ciao Ben ❤️ La tua gioia e il tuo entusiasmo continueranno ad alimentare il tuo ricordo nella nostra quotidianità.
Dai cugini di Montemarano: Lina e Gianni, Stefania e Deborah (Raimo), Sisina, Antonio, Rosetta, Tina, Mariella
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Matt McKay posted a condolence
Saturday, October 16, 2021
To the entire DeVito family, it's obvious by reading all of the kind words that all of you know how special Ben was to everyone. Not only did Ben and Nic do all of our masonry work for our business for many years they both worked on our personal builds. It was so amazing to see both Ben Nic work so well together, well most of the time that is, when you heard the loud Italian words coming out and they both went to separate areas of the house but within minutes they would be back working together on the same wall. The time Ben spent with my children on the jobsite, genuinely asking how they were , what they were up to, how school was going, teaching both my son and daughter Italian, having the patience to actually let both lay stones on our house, lessons and conversations they'll never forget. On many rain days Ben would stop in our shop and we would just talk about our families, our community, sports and if any time left then business, but always the other things first. Christine you had one amazing husband, Jessica and Faith your father was such an honest and genuine man, Nic and Giovanna you truly raised a dedicated Son, Husband, Father and Brother, your family values came out in Ben every single day, Be proud. Ben, I'm certainly going to miss our weekly chats and visits, Your Friends, Matt, Denise, Colin, Raegan McKay
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Joanna Ferrara posted a condolence
Saturday, October 16, 2021
The girls and I were devastated to hear the news. This world has lost a man who was larger than life. I grew up with Ben, he always made me laugh. Always found a way to make everyone laugh and included everyone who was around him. Ben loved and accepted everyone around him, even in high school. Then he met Christine and had two beautiful daughters who he loved more than life. I am so so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ❤️ .
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Dan Graves posted a condolence
Saturday, October 16, 2021
The Graves family and all of our Patene Building Supplies family are thinking and talking about Ben. Still hoping he will walk through our doors any minute. Ben would always joke around with all the staff at the office or on job sites truly happy to see us all. We are thankful Ben was a BIG part of our masonry family and he will be missed always.
Ben would always march up to my office for a chat about family first, see how everyone was doing, then talk jobs he was working on and planning for. Oh yes sports!! Ben loved his soccer team recently boasting Italy beating England, to our English driver-priceless!!
I have known Ben for 18 plus years and still cannot believe I will not see my good friend. God must have needed a Great Mason, he definitely has one now. As they say "A life that touches others goes on forever" RIP our friend!!
Our condolences to Christine, Jess, Faith and the entire Devito family.
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Lina DeMattia donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Saturday, October 16, 2021
We send our deepest sympathies to your family.
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Lina DeMattia donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Saturday, October 16, 2021
Our deepest sympathies to your family.
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Linda Lanz posted a condolence
Saturday, October 16, 2021
We have just known Ben a short three years but what a pleasant man and always a smile and a hello. Thursday as Ben was leaving work he stopped by and said have a good weekend. Our heart goes out to the whole DeVito and Caryn family.Mike/Linda Lanz
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Mark Denomy posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
I am truthfully loss for words , uncertain what to write here. I’ve known Ben for many years now it seems, I started playing volleyball and basketball against Ben in elementary school, Only to play on the same teams as Ben at the senior levels at the Pines . Years later our children went to George P Vanier together . As years followed I would continuously bump into Ben on the same construction sites. Through these many years he always remained; smiling , laughing , hard working , friendly and just a pleasure to talk to. Well done Ben . Thinking of all his family at this time . My deepest condolences. Mark , Lindsey, Parker and Sydney
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Madeline Delanghe posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
Dear Donnie and Shelley
So sorry for your daughter’s loss.
Our deepest condolences
Sincerely
Aunt Madeline (Delanghe) and family
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Sandy Longman posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
Hi Donnie and Shelley
We just heard about your daughter’s loss
Our deepest condolences. He sounded like a wonderful human being and will be missed dearly by his family and friends. We don’t get to see extended family like the good old days
Thinking of you
Sandra (Delanghe) And Bob Longman
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Tracy Henry posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
Dear Christine, Jessica, Faith and all the Devito family,
We were so saddened to hear of Ben's sudden passing. He was certainly a great guy and he will be missed by so many but especially his family. Many, many virtual hugs are coming to you from us.
Murray and Tracy Henry
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Victoria Ruggiero donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Friday, October 15, 2021
Sending my condolences to your family during this difficult time. I will be keeping you all in my thoughts.
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Stephen and Gibson Family donated to CANADIAN TIRE JUMPSTART CHARITIES/OEUVRE BON DEPART DE CANADIAN TIRE
Friday, October 15, 2021
Our deepest Sympathies to Christina and Family
Ron Gibson and Family, George and Patci Stephen and family
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Joanne Ruggiero donated to THE CANADIAN MENTAL HEALTH ASSOCIATION
Friday, October 15, 2021
From Joanne and Catello Ruggiero
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Nicole Corbin lit a candle
Friday, October 15, 2021
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You have my heartfelt condolences during this most difficult time. I am so, so very sorry for your loss.
Ben was such a happy, kind man.
You could always see how much he loved his wife, and girls.
Christine, Jessica and Faith, I am so sorry for the heart break you are feeling.
Nicole Corbin
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Vicki kovinsky van gerven posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
Sorry to hear of Ben's passing I didn't know him personally but he would always say hi when we saw each other prayers for the family Vicki Van gerven
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Nick Minardi donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Friday, October 15, 2021
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Antonietta Ruggiero donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Friday, October 15, 2021
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Massimo Devito donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Friday, October 15, 2021
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John and Jenny posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
To Ben’s family,
We are shocked and saddened by your devastating and profound loss. Ben was truly a kind man! Please accept our deepest condolences.
Keeping you all in our prayers,
John and Jenny Ceccacci
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Eva Pagano donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Friday, October 15, 2021
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Joe Todino donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Friday, October 15, 2021
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Margherita Todino donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Friday, October 15, 2021
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Eva Pagano posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
Our Deepest condolences to the Devito family Ben was such a wonderful person . our thoughts and prayers are with you all ,Eva, Margherita and Joe Todino and family
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Nadia Corso posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
I am deeply sorry for your loss and may you cherish the memories of Ben. My prayers are with Christine, Jessica, Faith & the DeVito Family.
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Lezlie Graham posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
Dear Luisa and Devito families,
Treasure your memories.
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Frank Oliva donated to CANADIAN TIRE JUMPSTART CHARITIES/OEUVRE BON DEPART DE CANADIAN TIRE
Friday, October 15, 2021
Frank Laura and Nina Oliva send our deepest condolences to Christine, Jessica, Faith and the entire De Vito Family. Ben will be missed but never forgotten.
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Pebbles Gravel & Topsoil donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Friday, October 15, 2021
Ben was a great soccer coach to our daughter Natalie and just a friendly guy to deal with when he came into our work. He will be missed. Our deepest sympathies to you family. Paul & Karen & Natalie Koomans
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Toby O'Hara posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
Ben and I went to grade school together and had an absolute blast growing up in 'birdland'. Some of my favourite memories growing up involve horsing around with Ben after school and on weekends. I was always pleased to see him and catch up when our paths crossed over the last 3 decades. He was always quick to greet everybody with a big, inviting and warm smile. What a devastating loss but please know that his legacy is a fantastic one and goes far and beyond what you currently see. From my family to yours, all of our best in coping with your loss.
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Laura Klazinga lit a candle
Friday, October 15, 2021
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I just wanted to send my condolences to Ben's family. I went to school with Ben and his wife. Cannot even fathom the pain that his family is feeling tonight. Ben always made it a point To make everybody feel special.... Whether he was a friend or not. Inhis eyes there was no strangers. I just wanted to pass my condolences to each and every one of you especially his wife And I guess it certainly rings true when they say" Only the good day young"
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Rosa &Jerry Sullo donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Friday, October 15, 2021
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Rosa & Jerry Sullo posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
Rosa and I are so sorry for your loss. Ben was a special person who found the positive in everything. Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family in your time of grief. Rosa & Jerry Sullo
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Charlie and Sylvia McDonell posted a condolence
Friday, October 15, 2021
Our heartfelt condolences to the beautiful families that Ben loved so much. Like so many, due to restrictions we cannot be with you, but you are in our hearts. We are hugging you all. You could see the love for his wife, children and family when he spoke. It was in his eyes also. A great example how a Father and Son shared a superb talent, working with perfection together with Love and Laughter. Ben will always be alive In Our Hearts. We are so grateful and fortunate that he was a part of our lives. Thank You Ben. We love you. Charlie and Sylvia McDonell
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Stephen & Erin Bess posted a condolence
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Both Erin and I were devastated and at a loss for words when we heard of Ben's passing. If ever the saying "only the good die young" was applicable, it applies to Ben. His passing is such an injustice to his friends and family that it makes me question the why's and how's of the world making any sense at all. As everyone is also saying, I've met few people in my life as genuine as Ben. I was fortunate enough to be around him more times than I can count, and although we didn't live near each other, he always approached me and spoke to me as though our friendship went back many decades. I met Ben not long after starting to date Erin, and we ran into each other at funerals, weddings, and family events in Canada. Whenever I saw him, he always made it a point to pull me aside and say, "Stephen - you're family," which technically of course we were, but we were both in-laws in a vast family that spanned many cousins, sisters, and aunts/uncles. When Ben said "you're family" I knew he truly meant it, and it always made me feel so good to hear that from him. The thing I think I remember the most about Ben was the look in his eyes when he would ask me how I was doing or what the latest news was from our side of the world. Not only was there a deep care in his eyes in asking that question - it was never a passing, throw-away question as some people use it -- but there was also and most importantly an overwhelming optimism in his eyes unlike any I've seen in another person asking that question. His eyes radiated optimism that whatever was coming would be great news. Ben seemed to be on the edge of his seat, eager to hear good news, and excited to share in the joy of basically anything I could say or bring up. To me, he believed in the best in people, and in situations, while remaining grounded and real at the same time. He was also just hilarious, and many different times we made each other laugh hysterically, which drew me even closer to him. I wasn't around him as much as I wish I could have been, but my time around Ben was valuable, real, caring, and genuine. He loved Erin and me like we were his brother and sister. That's who he was and who he will always be to Erin and me - the best attributes you could hope for in a person, all rolled up into one. We miss you Ben, we love you, and our hearts are broken that you're gone. I hope to share some laughs and ask YOU how you're doing in heaven some day! We love you so much. -Stephen & Erin
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Franko and Maria Vuk donated to CANADIAN TIRE JUMPSTART CHARITIES/OEUVRE BON DEPART DE CANADIAN TIRE
Thursday, October 14, 2021
DeVito Family: There are no words to describe how sorry we are for the sudden loss of Benedetto. He was such a wonderful man who will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love: Comare and Combare Maria and Frank
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Linda Sullo posted a condolence
Thursday, October 14, 2021
We were very sadden to hear of Ben's passing. His huge caring smile will always be in our memories.
Enio & Linda Sullo
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Aunt Connie and Uncle Ron and Family donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Thursday, October 14, 2021
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Joe Mariconda posted a symbolic gesture
Thursday, October 14, 2021
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Nick, Giovanna, Christine and families. Ben was a wonderful human being! Always had that great smile. Thoughts and prayers to you all. He will take care of you all from above.
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Karen and Boris Jelusic donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Our deepest sympathies to your family
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Enrico & Marilena Naclerio posted a condolence
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Our deepest condolences to the DeVito Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Ben was an amazing person and he will truly be missed. Running in to him, always had a smile and had great stories to tell. He adored his family. Keep those great memories in your heart. He will always be with you. God Bless, big hug!!
Enrico, Marilena Naclerio and family
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Maria Magliaro donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Our deepest condolences to your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. The Magliaro Family.
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Vincenzo and Carmela Naclerio posted a condolence
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Our deepest condolences to the entire DeVito family. Ben was such a wonderful man with the biggest heart. May god bless you all during this difficult time.
With love,
Vincenzo and Carmela Naclerio
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Mary Ellen McColl posted a condolence
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Dear DeVito Family, We are all so sorry to hear about your loss. May God give you strength and console during this difficult time. Saying prayers for your whole family. Sincerely, The McColl Family
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Sue Dow lit a candle
Thursday, October 14, 2021
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To Christine, Jessica and Faith, I’m so sorry for loss. Will keep you in my prayers.
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Fabrizia Romano posted a condolence
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Dear DeVito Family:
No words can describe the profound sorrow I feel for you in the loss of Ben! I have great childhood memories of him and throughout the years whenever I saw and spoke to Ben, I always left with a smile on my face. Ben was truly one of a kind! He was a loving and devoted husband, father, son, brother, uncle and friend who cherished his family. I will miss him dearly! On behalf of myself, Rob, Lucas and Isabella I extend my deepest condolences and hold you in my prayers!
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Luciano and Grazia Magliaro donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Our deepest condolences to all, sorry for the loss. Our prayers are with you.
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Arriscraft Canada donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Our deepest sympathies to your family at this very difficult time. We have you all in our thoughts. We were so fortunate to have known and worked with Ben. He will be greatly missed by the Masonry/Construction community.
Sarah Steele and George Winsor-Arriscraft Canada
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John Aitken posted a condolence
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Reg and Luisa
We are so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. It is never easy to loose someone so close especially at such a young age. May the support of family and friends help make this sad time less painful.
Cindy and I met Ben when he was the mason for a house that we built in Chatham. His work was excellent and he always had a positive attitude. We know that he will be greatly missed.
Our condolences to you and your family.
John Aitken and Cindy Armaly
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Americo & Lisa Todino donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Sending you love and prayers. Our hearts go out to your beautiful family. We will remember always how much Ben loved people and life. His joyous personality will always be remembered. Ben will remain forever in our hearts.
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Rhonda Jubenville posted a condolence
Thursday, October 14, 2021
Christine and the DeVito family. Words cannot express how saddened we are to hear of your profound loss. Ben was larger than life and he touched the lives of everyone he knew in a special way. Your love for each other and his love for "his girls" was very palpable. The love and respect from his family , friends and the community are obvious since we are unable to visit the funeral home, but please know the entire DeVito family will continue to be in our thoughts and included in our prayers. We pray that God's love will enfold and comfort you throughout this difficult time.
Rhonda Jubenville and Olivia & Zach Stallaert
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Agnes Soulard posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
Dear Christine and family, Unfortunately Rick and I were unable to sign up in time for visitation. Please know that you are in our thoughts and our prayers. Sending sincere condolences. Rick and Agnes Soulard
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Cecilia, Michael & Mia McLauchlin lit a candle
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Ben you were the salt of the earth….
I do not think I will ever meet such a kind person that truly took the time to say Hi, and ask how you were doing. Not only did you do this with Michael and I, but also our daughter Mia who is 10. You were interested in people and genuine.
I can remember daily seeing you on Braemar while you were going to work or leaving, always stopping to have a chit chat. My last conversation was just a mere few days ago and you were expressing how much you wanted to travel and get away with your beautiful family. I am saddened this did not happen.
Heaven has certainly gained a special man.
Ben, I am certainly honoured to have known you and share the chats we have had. You will continue to protect your lovely wife and kids.
Safe Travels my friend-
Cecilia, Michael & Mia (McDonell) McLauchlin
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Maria Mariconda donated to Chatham Kent Hospice Inc.
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
My deepest sympathy to the Devito family. I will keep the family in my prayers, during this very difficult time.
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Gerva and Guy shields posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
To Ben's family,
We are so sorry for the sudden loss of your beloved Ben. May our thoughts and prayers help comfort you.
Our deepest sympathy,
Gerva and Guy Shields
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Lori Gall lit a candle
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Christine,
We were shocked to learn of Ben’s passing and still cannot comprehend that he’s gone. We are so so very sorry for your family’s loss. We would have attended the visitation to pay our respects in person but cannot, so please accept our sincere and heartfelt condolences. Ben undoubtedly left you many memories, and we hope that they will keep him close in the days ahead. We are thinking of your whole family at this difficult time, and praying for comfort.
Ken & Lori Gall
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Linda Lesy donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Lina Ottaviano donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
Our deepest condolences to the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Carmine, Lina and Gino Ottaviano
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Clarence & Joy waud posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Clarence & Joy waud Posted Oct 13, 2021 at 4:31 PM
Our sincere condolences to his family, his Dad and his gracious wife. A man that we shared stories with on the Job. A kind and tremendous heart, a true gentleman. His kindness and love for others will be greatly missed. I will remember him as we pass by the jobs he has completed, and will have constant memories of the great times we shared together. May he rest in peace in Gods hands. May God watch over all of your suffering and that you find peace knowing he is in Gods Grace.
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Jean Earley posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
Christine,Jessica,Faith,Jesse..and DeVito family…
Ben was one of the most respectful and respected young man that we had the honour of knowing from grade school on…always had a smile ..a pleasant kind word for everyone….Heaven has gained a huge hearted loved man…God speed Ben…..
Jean and Jim Earley
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Dina Meriano donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Sheila and Brad Builder donated to THE CANADIAN MENTAL HEALTH ASSOCIATION
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Tony Meriano donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Don and Karen Rae donated to CANADIAN TIRE JUMPSTART CHARITIES/OEUVRE BON DEPART DE CANADIAN TIRE
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Don, Karen, Amanda, Alison and Evan Rae posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
Our family first had the pleasure of meeting Ben and Christine at George P Vanier school where they were so involved with their beautiful daughters, Jessica and Faith and in the school community. Everyone knew how much he loved all his girls and how important family was to him. He was definitely one of the good guys and will miss seeing him when walking by with my pup. We wish we could pay our respects in person, but with registration full, only further shows how liked and respected Ben was by so many ..To Christine, Jessica (Jesse) and Faith and your entire families, keep all the precious memories close in your heart, where he will always be…Hugs
Don, Karen, Amanda, Alison and Evan
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Mirella Magliaro posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Our deepest and sincerest condolences to all of the families. We send our thoughts and prayers as you mourn the loss of an important man in your lives - a son, a brother, a husband, a father and an uncle. He will be remembered for many things, including his kind heart and glowing smile.
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Kathy & Chuck Joynt & family donated to CANADIAN TIRE JUMPSTART CHARITIES/OEUVRE BON DEPART DE CANADIAN TIRE
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Mirella Magliaro posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Le nostre piu sinceri condoglianze a Giovanna e Nicola - e alla famiglia che si sente la mancanza di un fratello, un marito, un padre e uno zio. Our prayers are thoughts are with the entire family as you mourn your loss of a special man.
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Lynn Simpson donated to CANADIAN TIRE JUMPSTART CHARITIES/OEUVRE BON DEPART DE CANADIAN TIRE
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
My deepest sympathy to your family. Ben will be remembered fondly. Such a tragedy.
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Ron, Yvonne VanDeVelde donated to CANADIAN TIRE JUMPSTART CHARITIES/OEUVRE BON DEPART DE CANADIAN TIRE
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Tony, Sue, Rachel, Jess Moretto donated to CANADIAN TIRE JUMPSTART CHARITIES/OEUVRE BON DEPART DE CANADIAN TIRE
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Pat Vincent (L'Ecuyer) donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
My Sympathies to the family.
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Tiffani Amato donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Tricia Hosfeld lit a candle
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Christine and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Ben was a great guy and was always smiling and saying Hi whenever you saw him. You guys were a great couple and a beautiful family. He will surely be missed. My sincere condolences. Please take care of yourselves through this tough time. Sincerely, Tricia and Michael Hosfeld and Jordan Attewell.
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Tiffani Amato lit a candle
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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the Amato family would like send our deepest condolences to the DeVito family. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this time.
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Tricia Tengelis lit a candle
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Shocked and saddened to hear this news. Ben was always smiling and cheerful whenever our family bumped into him in town. Did wonderful work on our home years ago and I remember how good he was with our son, showing him how to lay bricks. Never thought we wouldn't have an opportunity to use his skills in the future. A light has been dimmed in this world. He will be missed by so many people. Our hearts go out to his entire family - he was truly a great man who made a difference to everyone he encountered. Condolences to all.
Jim, Tricia and Ethan Tengelis
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Sean Murphy posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
Every acquaintance I had with Ben, he always left me a little wiser. Always in a way that made me a better person.
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Angela Soulliere posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
Ben was always smiling and friendly to me. I first met Ben and Christine while working for Lu at the bank. I would then see Ben on job sites when I was working. He always stopped what he was doing to wave to me as I drove by. I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for all of you. Find comfort in your fond memories of Ben. Rest In Peace.
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Ivan Benko posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Dear Christine, Jessica and Faith,
Please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of Ben. I had the pleasure of coaching Ben when he played senior boys basketball at Ursuline College. He was an extremely coachable, dedicated and talented athlete. Forever smiling and positive, he was a team leader and a pleasure to work with. Seeing him and his family in the years after UCC was always a treat. May he Rest In Peace and may God grant peace to Christine and family.
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Wilbert & Mary Jean Horne posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
Dear Christian & family our deepest sympathy. Ben was a wonderful caring young man. May he rest in peace
The Hornes'
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Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Jerry and Denise posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
Christine, Just to let you know we are keeping you and your family close to our ❤️ ‘ s today and in the days ahead, you are in our thoughts and prayers! Jerry and Denise Tremblay
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Frank Oliva lit a candle
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Had the pleasure to be with Ben on a few occasions and he was welcoming and made you feel part the family and he truly will be missed from family and friends. Dom, Grace, Nick Anthony and Daniela Loved Super Zio and always talked about how dedicated and always was fun to be with and shared his love with everyone. Our sincere condolences to the entire De Vito Family. Lots of love from the Oliva's Frank Laura and Nina.
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Yvette Foster posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
My condolences to the entire Devito family on Ben’s passing. I am so sorry to hear of his passing just way too young. He always had a smile on his face and a big heart. I will keep you in my prayers.
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Christina Quaglia posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
We are shocked and saddened to read this news this morning! Our most sincere condolences to Ben’s entire family, especially to Nick, who I got to know so well last year! Ben was such a special human, and not at all shocked to read that the visitation and funeral are fully booked. Our hearts and prayers to you and the entire DeVito family. Jonathan and Christina Quaglia.
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Wednesday, October 13, 2021
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Lynn Wraight and family posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
Sincere condolences to the DeVito family. May you find comfort in your memories of such a fine husband, son and brother.
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Brian Pepper posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Shared a coffee almost every morning at coffee shop queen and Tweedsmeir always had time before laying bricks a great guy My prayers go out to his family
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Roz & Dom Sterling lit a candle
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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Sooo, sooo, sorry to hear of Bennie's passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Words cannot express how saddened we are to hear this news.
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Mary Cirillo posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
I am so saddened to hear of Ben’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and I send my deepest condolences to Christine, Jessica & Faith along with the entire DeVito Family
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Mark north lit a candle
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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It broke my heart today to hear about Ben .Sen had a big heart i met Ben back in 1988 gng mis u and mis seen u god bless
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Suart and Brenda Wicks posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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Words are not enough to express how sorry we are for your loss.
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Gisele Grieves lit a candle
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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Sending up prayers at this great loss. My sincere condolences.
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Lisa and Rob Pieta posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Dear Christine and Family,
To hear of Ben’s passing has hit our hearts big. Although life has not always connected us regularly, the one thing we know is how great of a guy he was. Truly respected, respectful, loved and loving. He and Christine were a couple we all admired in high school and beyond. Accept our heartfelt condolences and know that his life has left a true impact on all of us. May god bless all of you during this time of loss and remembrance of a wonderful, kind human being.
In friendship, Rob and Lisa Pieta
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Jeni Powell donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
We are so terribly sorry to hear of the tremendous loss of Ben. You are in our thoughts at this very difficult time
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Pete & Deb Muller posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Christine, Jess, Faith and families...Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time...God Bless all of you...Will certainly miss his sarcastic comments in the McDonalds drive thru....RIP My Friend
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Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Not surprised the visitation is totally booked up! Ben was a great man, who loved everyone and was so proud of his family! Will miss running into him while out doing deliveries and having a chat, catching up on our kids. Our deepest sympathies to your family.
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Marie Roy posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
We are so deeply sad to hear about Ben's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!
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Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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Jane Georges posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Christine, Jessica, Faith, Luisa, and Ben’s entire family, know how deeply shocked and sorry I am. Ben was my former student. For many teachers, significant students remain firmly and fondly seated in their memories. Ben remained in mine. I recall vividly his laughter, his joy for life and his bond with his girl, Christine. I had the great pleasure of working with Ben many years later, in his role as parent, his dedication so evident and intense. It is extremely difficult to reconcile his presence with this sorrowful loss. I send my prayers and my love. May his passion thread itself throughout your lives always. Peace and God’s blessings.
Jane Georges
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Nancy Labadie posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Praying for Christine, Diane and the Devito family for strength to carry them through this difficult time.
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Catie Hawryluk posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Every single day I waved and said hello to Ben. Every. Single. Day. It was either in the early morning, or after a days work, in his parents driveway. Why??? Because that is who he was. A loving family man. Often ift was a wave on the weekend, or a holiday or watching over the “tomato sauce factory” in the fall, in their garage. So palpably Devoted, to his wife, girls and parents. I saw that every day. Incredibly saddened to hear of your passing Ben. You were a kind and gentle guy, who always had a smile and friendly wave for those in your parents neighbourhood. I am deeply, deeply sorry your family has lost you. You will be missed beyond words.
Catie Hawryluk (&family)
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Alexis Wolski lit a candle
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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Ben was truly an amazing man, he was loving and kind and funny. He always welcomed me into his home with an open heart. When I was 14 I met him and Christine for the first time and I wanted to have what they had: love, friendship, laughter and a beautiful family. He was such a terrific husband and dad, brother in law, uncle and friend. Me and my family send our deepest condolences and prayers to everyone he loved.
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Michael Bechard posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
So sorry for your loss…thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
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Jerry & Angela Corso posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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Simply no words to express our condolences. Our thoughts are with you Christine, girls, and the entire Devito Family. May time heal the sorrow, but never will be forgotten.
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Jill posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Ben was one of the greatest men I've ever known. He really had it all - a true class act. He loved his girls fiercly and enjoyed every moment of life with all the people who surrounded him. He made friends with everyone - especially the kids. I will miss watching his love for one of my best friends...and of course his humour and bear hugs. The world truly lost one of the greats. Sending so much love and prayers to all his family and friends who loved him dearly.
Much love,
Brady & Jill Watterworth
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Jake Allin (Slayer) posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Deepest condolences to all of ben's family
Ben was the most loyal customer of ours at UPI Gas station on park Ave. over the 16 years I was working at that site there were Thousands of conversations with Ben, always smiling and always in the mood to mess with me and the rest of the staff. It is people like Ben that make working with the public more bearable. Thank you Ben for the years and years of memories.
Sincerely the staff at UPI 2005-2019
"We will see you on the dark side of the moon Ben"
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Alana Francis donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF CANADA / FONDATION DES MALADIES DU COEUR ET DE L'AVC DU CANADA
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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Ken, Alana and Lydia Francis lit a candle
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Lisa Pinsonneault lit a candle
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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Paul doForno posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
I went to high school with Ben and saw him from time to time over the last 30 years. I always remember him laughing and smiling always there to help. I am so sad and pray for his family and sending all my love
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Carrie Renaud lit a candle
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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My deepest condolences to Christine and family. Ben was a wonderful person. May he rest in peace
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Lisa Alward posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Look at that smile! Benny Devito was magic! He always made you feel as if seeing you and talking to you was the best part of his day.
Ben wrote his name on our hearts when we first met him and his lovely parents and siblings when they attended elementary school with our two boys.
Kind, loving, sweet, caring - that was Ben Devito…
Thinking of the entire Devito family with caring thoughts
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theresa devolder posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Vanessa and the Devolder family convey our deepest condolences to Faith and the Devito family. May Ben's soul rest in Eternal Peace.
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Pat Breen posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Sending prayers and sympathies to Christine and family. Rest In Peace.
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Joanne (Dunlop) Sinclair lit a candle
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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Joanne (Dunlop) Sinclair posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Deepest condolences to the Devito and extended family. May all your memories be cherished and kept close to your heart. God bless
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Ray & Ginnie D’Hondt posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Christine, Nick & Giovanna,
We were so saddened to hear of Bens passing. Our deepest condolences to you all.
Ray & Ginnie
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Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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Joanne Forster posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
Sending my deepest sympathy to Christine, Jessica and the DeVito family. I had the pleasure of teaching both Ben and Christine. I’ve known and loved him for years. He was such a sweet, gentle man and wonderful God father to my granddaughter Chloe. Rest In Peace dear friend .
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Kelly Eagen lit a candle
Tuesday, October 12, 2021
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We love you guys! Hang in there. XO
Brett & Kelly Eagen
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